Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Becoming a Social Butterfly

I know this a little random, but I think a great way to have a good time while away at college, is to go out and have fun. Oh yes yes it is. You want to have friends, you want people to want to hang out with you and you want to have the time of your life. Think of college as the greatest time of your life. There will be no other time where you will live like this so you better make the best of it.
I remember when I first came to college, and I really didn't know anyone. So what I did was become very friendly to everyone I met. I put on a front that I was nice and caring. More people will open up to you if you come off very friendly. Your first impression will not only give people an opinion about you, but could become a great memory down the line.
Once you find some people who you think are fun and want to go out with them, go out with them. This is going to be the second place where you will meet new people. Once you go out and have that liquid confidence, you still should be nice. Don't go so sloppy, that people will remember you as "that guy", but have fun. Don't hold yourself back just because you are trying to use your magic and flirt with some people of the opposite sex. Be confident. Even if you just want to be sociable, go out and do it. Remember, best times of your life. This is a huge factor on why it will be.

1 comment:

  1. I think this is a very accurate assessment of college life Eddie.

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